Thursday, October 30, 2008

Strictly Fab Beauty Product: NARS Safest Set

NARS is now offering the Safest Set that not only comes with The Multiple in Orgasm for cheeks, eyes, and lips...it also comes with two condoms in slick packaging. And just in case you need it, it features a little Black Book of ways to say "no" to let a hornball down if he doesn't get the message. Not will it only help you stay disease-free or celibate...or even, dare I say it, remain a virgin...it's for a great cause. A portion of the proceeds benefit Amfar programs to promote global safe sex education initiatives. Not only can you help yourself and your friends, you can help save the world.

I live in a city (DC) that has an HIV infection rate of 1 in 20...and I know a few people in my circle that have contracted the virus and they are under the age of 30...so protect yourselves, ladies...

And just in case you didn't know, here are the US statistics on the number of people afflicted with AIDS courtesy of www.avert.org:

People living with AIDS

At the end of 2006, the CDC estimates that 448,871 people were living with AIDS in America. This number includes all people who have ever been diagnosed with an AIDS-defining condition and are believed to be alive, including many people who have recovered their health by taking antiretroviral therapy. The chart below shows the ethnicities of these people, revealing that black Americans have been disproportionately affected.


If not for yourself, give this gift of beauty love to your best buds and help them keep it safe...or locked down...let them choose! You can find it here at Sephora.

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Wednesday, October 29, 2008

MAN DAY: How to Pick Up the Pretty Ladies

HAPPY MAN DAY!


Thanks to the fellas over at Be Better Guys, I have a few tips for you gents on how to pick up a beautiful woman from a verified Pick up Artist. I've seen Hitch, but who knew they actually existed? Well, I guess in the days of reality shows like 'The Pick Up Artist" on VH-1, it was only a matter of time before the general public knew of such a career. Enjoy!

Dating: How to Meet a Beautiful Woman

The burning question on the mind of nearly every single male is, "What is the appropriate manner in which to approach and conversationally engage an attractive, eligible woman?" Is there a proven method to break the ice without appearing either seedy or intrusive? Most of us, at some time or another, struggle with the thought. Here are some tips for Be Better Guys' readers:

FUN IS FIRST


Bear in mind that whether you're in a bookstore, bank, or bar, no one will want to meet you if you seem like you're stressed or pressed. When you politely introduce yourself to a lady, she's just someone you're speaking to because she happens to be there. An opener such as, "Hi, my name is ----" is fine. You may follow with a humorous observation about the book section she's in, the long theatre line, or the traffic coming in. The fact that you're merely being nice, and have a sense of wit, goes a long way. It's your love of life in general that's attractive -- you're not "hitting on her".




SMALL TALK
It's best to limit initial conversation to larger themes about life, favorite vacations, eye-opening experiences, rather than school, work, and past girlfriends. In this way, you'll provide a peek into your soul- professions are about talent and taste, but leisure time activities and volunteer work tell a person what makes you really tick. Moreover, many women tire of discussing work when they're free of the office, and find men that do so boring and self-absorbed. Discuss a recent favorite flick or book.

LOCATION, LOCATION
Where one encounters a pretty woman is as important as when. If the space is noisy or crowded, move the conversation to a quieter corner, or ask her if she'd like to get some fresh air on the balcony or in the parking lot. If the scene isn't a nightclub, ask her to go for a walk. Pleasant nights can be romantic, and a short walk offers an opportunity to vibe free of observing or judgemental eyes. If you happen to be in a club, and things are going well, suggest bouncing to a smaller spot where you guys can hear one another better (make sure it's nearby). Even the walk outside to the cars is a brief, private chance to chat.

THE TOUCH TEST

One can gauge where one stands with a new acquaintance by observing her body language, whether she laughs at your quips and sarcasm, and the distance which she chooses to sit or stand from you. During a conversation that is at once light (not too much workplace, politics, or dating woes) and thoughtful, wait for her to make a funny point. When she does, punctuate your laughter by letting your hand graze the top of hers, or her forearm, in brief acknowledgement of the humor. You may also tap her shoulder to close a teasing statement of your own. This of course bridges the tactile barrier, and thus contributes to bonding. Also be attuned to whether she playfully taps you or nudges you when she says something witty. Assess the appropriateness, the distance, and the individual, and keep it light- there are no musts here- it's just a good idea if it feels right.

IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT HER
Guys, the hidden secret to meeting beautiful women is establishing social capital. The importance of this element cannot be overestimated. We are more attracted to those whom others approve. If you meet a woman who is out with girlfriends, say cute and thoughtful things to everyone there, don't focus on the young lady you are the most attracted to. Banter about music, human nature, art, and ask all their opinions and feelings. Be mannered, pull their seats out for them, open doors, etc. Treat everyone that they can see you interact with as if you were a visiting prince -- cabbies, bartenders, the deejay. This should be genuine- something you do all the time, not a showy exhibition. Women take note of the stock others hold in you, and also their girlfriends' opinion that you seemed ". . .like a nice guy. . . ." Be liberal with the charm- it's not about winning her over, it's about the way she sees you treat everyone.

ALWAYS BE CLOSING
Keep this initial encounter as brief as you can. Leave an element of mystery and anticipation. While she's laughing, responding, and opening up, tell her you've got to run, and exchange contact info. Offer to pick this conversation up another time. You've probably heard old school entertainers say "Always leave 'em wanting more". Wherever you are, you didn't come there to meet women, you were just being friendly, and in mid-discussion, noticed that she's a cool person. Get the digits and jet.

WHAT'S HER SIGN?
One of the most oft-asked questions I hear is how do I know whether to approach a woman or not, and when I do- how can I tell if she digs me? What are the signs? Again, if she scoots close to you, tilts her heard back in laughter at what you say, or gently taps you, there's some attraction on her part. Another "tell" is how many questions she asks about you. Curiosity = interest. One may also assume one is faring well when the woman in question offers to introduce you to her friend or friends there. Steady eye contact is also a good sign.

Remember guys, if you exhibit a genuine love for life, a positive attitude, can hold forth on a variety of intriguing topics (beyond sports and career), and treat others royally, beautiful women will take notice.

Lee Coles is a consultant on matters of dating. He's a been a columnist on the topic for Being Single, Essence, and Today's Black Woman. For personal consultation, DC area residents may contact Lee at smooth.talker@live.com, or visit him at Pulljoy (c).

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Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Strictly Fab Hippie Chick Look For Less


Ok, so I am not even close to being on the Sarah Palin-John McCain bandwagon, but I do admire her style. I giggled a bit once I heard about the $150k spent on her clothing by the Republican Party---I'm not a hockey mom, but I don't think that the average hockey/soccer/football/basketball mom can drop that much on clothing...unless her seed is a highly paid professional athlete who still really loves his mommy...

Anyways, to get the $150K look for less, check out the imagery below courtesy of The Avenue...and it's for the hippie chick hockey mom!

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Monday, October 27, 2008

Strictly Fab Health: Will That Be One Cup or Two?


Happy Monday! As if we women didn't have enough to worry about, a new study has found that drinking coffee reduces breast size:

Drinking a lot of coffee reduces the size of many women's breasts, a Swedish researcher finds.

Helena Jernstrom, an oncologist at Lund University in southern Sweden, said that the effect is the result of a gene that about half of women possess, The Local reported.

"Drinking coffee can have a major effect on breast size," she said.

Jernstrom became interested in the subject because of research that has shown that large-breasted women are more likely to be diagnosed with breast cancer, while downing at least three cups of coffee a day reduces cancer risk. She decided to look for a correlation directly between drinking coffee and breast size and found one.

Her study tracked 270 women. Jernstrom's results were published in the British Journal of Cancer.


Source and Source

Well, on a positive note, drinking caffeinated coffee reduces the risk of developing breast cancer. I would choose itty bitties over breast cancer any day....

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Thursday, October 23, 2008

Strictly Fab Fashion: Levi Jeans Are Fierce!

Good morning fab readers! We have a most fabulous guest blogger today, Elle of In A Word Fab. She did me the extreme pleasure of dishing the dirt about the NYC Levi's Fall Fashion Preview Party. Here are the juicy details:





Greetings fabulites! Elle from In a Word...Fab here, and I am oh so pleased to bring you greetings from across the blogosphere! At the behest of the super sweet Celena, I recently attended the Levi's Fall Fashion Preview Party in NYC, and Miss C has been kind enough to allow me to make a quick guest appearance on the Strictly Fab blog to report back on the newest arrivals in the Fall/Holiday collection of the legendary jeans brand.


I must tell you, though, this task was a tad daunting. Sure, jeans are the ultimate wardrobe staple...who among us doesn't own one or a thousand pairs? But the fact remains that Elle is just not a jeans girl. I've come to rely almost completely on dresses as my go-to item. So, entering the Levi's store, a jeans-lover's dream, I was excited at the prospect of expanding my Fall 2008 wardrobe to include a great pair of jeans.



And wouldn't you know...I didn't find just one pair, but three! Drunk on cupcakes and champagne, and with the help of an amazing saleswoman named Carol, I tried on about fifty 'leven pairs of Levi's, from skinny to flared, from dark wash to light, and finally settled on the three below.


The first are a pair of Clean Wide Leg Trousers which were on sale (score!) and are made of ultra-light airy denim. Pocketless and sophisticated enough to accent with even the most glam accessories, these jeans make me feel unstoppable.



Next, I was introduced to Levi's Re-Issued Collection, which are jeans inspired by Levi's from the 60's and 70's, but with modern updates. I fell in love with the 1970 Flare's and (forgive the drama) had to take it all the way retro with a vintage disco top and floppy hat.


Finally, I was introduced to the importance of having a pair of black jeans in the rotation. These Low Skinny 531 Jeans fit like a dream and go with about a million things that are already in my closet. How did I ever live without them?

It's so official: 'tis the season for Levi's!

Have a strictly stylish day!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

MAN DAY: Links Love


Happy Man Day! I have something special for you fellas...a guest post from Be Better Guys!

For the Love of Cuff links
by David Boris
I love to collect things, particularly things that I can eventually pass on to my son. So I have a small collection of vintage watches, signed baseballs, a small library of American novels, and some cufflinks. Guys don’t have as many ways to express their individual taste and style as women do, since we don’t have the option to decide today if we want to go to the office in a skirt and blouse, a dress, a suit, jeans, a sweater and leggings. Well, one guy in my office expresses himself that way, but I keep my interaction with him to the bare minimum.
For guys, it’s shirt, suit, tie. Or shirt, slacks, sportjacket. Or shirt, khakis, sweater. Always a shirt, and thank the Lord for that, because approved male toplessness in public has still not passed the House Subcommittee Studying Matthew McConaghey ‘s Impact on Men’s Fashion. So if you’re going to wear a shirt every day, you can punch it up, stand out, separate from the crowd and still look classy and cool.
Cufflinks. Most guys don’t bother with French cuff shirts. The cuffs are kind of formal, but much less so now days, meaning when you wear one with a set of cool links, people will notice. They may never say a word, but they notice. And what I love about cufflinks is that they can match your mood.

When I’m feeling like honoring my Dad, I put on one of two pairs of cuff links he made when he was in high school.

When I’m really feeling like my wife can do no wrong and I’m digging her big time, I wear the typewriter cufflinks I had made with her initials (they were $25; how’s that for a good deal?).

A dressy event? I wear the platinum Tiffany links my wife being got me a few birthdays ago, engraved with my initials. Understated and elegant.

When I feel like dialing up the spirit of my wife’s honored uncle, I reach for his old round links with a raised impression of a crab – we both share July birthdays. Or I wear the sterling silver knots that used to be his. Or the throwback buffalo penny links featuring pennies from 1901 and 1902. Love those.

In a New York mood, I wear the subway token cuff links I also had made (also $25).

When I’m feeling downtown, my wife got me these vintage deco sterling silver intertwined squares that have a real hipness to them…at least I think they do.

The point is that whatever your passion – basketball, gambling, cocktails, golf, the stock market, fishing, astrology, art, politics, or just looking different from the pack – cuff links are a great way to do that. They can range from $10 for a set of silk knots up to many thousands if you want serious jewelry. But along the way are many expressive links at price points that won’t kill you. And if you ever have a son, you’ve got something to pass on to him. And creating a legacy is part of what being a man is all about.

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Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Strictly Fab Find: Spiked Stillettos


Posh was out and about very recently with a very interesting fashion choice on her lower appendages. Check out her "killer" heels...
Found on Daily Style Guide:


Victoria Beckham at J Sheekey restaurant, London, October 17th. Check out the spikes on the shoes! Only V.B could rock these. I think she looks fabulous! I love, love, love the little black lace minidress…the shape, the length, the fabric, the too cool for school pockets! Ahhh…fashion at it’s best. Her dark cropped hairstyle really works for me with this fierce ensemble.What do you think?

The shoes are by Christian Louboutin (for Rodarte), of course, and are priced at a jaw-dropping £1,500. They give a new meaning to the phrase ‘killer heels’. At least nobody will be stepping on her toes in a hurry.

I'm undecided about this one...need to see them on to make a terminal decision...
Until then...keep it strictly stylish~

Monday, October 20, 2008

Another Living Legend is Gone


It is a sad, sad day in the lives of fashion critics everywhere...Mr Blackwell, creator of the famed Best and Worst Dressed lists that had fashionistas fearing and cringing worldwide to find out if they were on "The List, " has died.  Here is a portion of the story from the AP:

Mr. Blackwell, the acerbic designer whose annual worst-dressed list skewered the fashion felonies of celebrities from Zsa Zsa Gabor to Britney Spears, has died. He was 86.

Blackwell died Sunday of complications from an intestinal infection, publicist Harlan Boll said.

Blackwell, whose first name was Richard, was a little-known dress designer when he issued his first tongue-in-cheek criticism of Hollywood fashion disasters for 1960 — long before Joan Rivers and others turned such ridicule into a daily affair.

Year after year, he would take Hollywood's reigning stars and other celebrities to task for failing to dress in what he thought was the way they should.

Being dowdy was bad enough, but the more outrageous clothing a woman wore, the more biting his criticism. He once said a reigning Miss America looked "like an armadillo with cornpads."

A few other examples:

Madonna: "The Bare-Bottomed Bore of Babylon."

Barbra Streisand: "She looks like a masculine Bride of Frankenstein."

Christina Aguilera: "A dazzling singer who puts good taste through the wardrobe wringer."

Meryl Streep: "She looks like a gypsy abandoned by a caravan."

Sharon Stone: "An over-the-hill Cruella DeVille."

Lindsay Lohan: "From adorable to deplorable."

Patti Davis: "Packs all the glamour of an old, worn-out sneaker."

Ann Margret: "A Hells Angel escapee who invaded the Ziegfeld Follies on a rainy night."

Camilla Parker-Bowles: "The Duchess of Dowdy."

Bjork: "She dances in the dark — and dresses there, too."

Spears: "Her bra-topped collection of Madonna rejects are pure fashion overkill."

The critic acknowledged he had mixed feelings about appearing so publicly mean. Most of the women he put through the wringer, he said, were people he genuinely admired for their talent if not their fashion sense.

Read the rest here.  Keep it strictly stylish!

Friday, October 17, 2008

Strictly Fab Find: Giuseppe Zanotti Mirror Embellished Ankle Boots


These booties are absolutely on fiyah!  

Bling Booties

Tear up the dance floor in these Zanotti ankle boots

WHAT: Giuseppe Zanotti's mirror embellished ankle boots

WHY: Studio 54 may have had its heyday, but you can still party like a disco-era rock star. Worn with skinny jeans, they're rocking. With a miniskirt, very Carine Roitfeld. In other words, darlings, you're primed for whatever the day (or night!) may bring.

PRICE: $995
AVAILABLEhttp://www.net-a-porter.com

If you can't handle the high cost of fashion, try these Alice and Olivia boots at Payless on for size for a mere $48.00.

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Madonna Is Gung Ho for Gun Heels

Madonna recently rocked an unusual pair of heels to her latest film debut, Filth and Wisdom (which, by the way, she directed). Who knew that the "heels" would cause such an uproar?

Via NY Mag:

The platforms with guns for heels were a highlight of Karl Lagerfeld's Chanel 2009 resort collection. But a British anti-violence group found the shoes offensive and has labeled Madge "uncaring."
Lyn Costello, from Mothers Against Murder And Aggression, says, "I am horrified that Madonna can see these shoes as fashion. Celebrities have a massive part to play and an icon like Madonna should have more sense.


"It's uncaring. Surely she reads the news and realizes that young people are dying every day."



Well, her movie is predicted to be a flop, she is getting a divorce, and she is highly stressed. Let her have some type of fun! I wouldn't rock them, but, I am in no way similar to Madge, who is known for provocation and titillation. Bang, bang, shoot 'em up for fashionistas worldwide!

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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

MAN DAY: Is That Poo On Your Face?


David Beckham is constantly on some sort of beautiful people list. Well, guess how he maintains his gorgeous skin? Bird poo! Yes, that's what I said...

Read the details below via the NY Daily News:

It's no longer a secret that celebrities have some strange beauty habits. But are bird dropping facials really the next big thing?

Victoria and David Beckham are the latest duo said to have joined in on some bizarre beauty treatments. "Posh Spice" Beckham, who has long had a problem with keeping a clear complexion, is now reportedly raving about the so-called Geisha facial.

"When Victoria was in Japan recently she was admiring the local women's clear skin and discovered it was down to these facials," a friend of the 34-year-old star recently told Closer magazine. "She tried it and loved how great her skin looked. She also uses a cream derived from nightingale poo at home."

The facial, which costs about $200, uses a paste made from nightingale droppings in order to combat the problem acne she claims to have suffered since she was a teenager.

Ha! Now how many of you menfolk would be willing to luxuriate in a bird poo facial? You too, could be just as pretty as The Becks...

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Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Strictly Fab Find: Tyra Bank's New Reality Show

Well, Tyra's up to another one....I received this last week but am now getting around to posting...my bad! If you haven't heard the scoop as of yet, here it is:

Carol’s Daughter and The Tyra Banks Show announce Modelville, a new reality series within “The Tyra Banks Show.” Modelville highlights five former contestants from America’s Next Top Model, each competing to win a one-year contract as a Carol’s Daughter Spokesbeauty. Modelville includes the first beauty contract ever offered by Carol’s Daughter through a competition. The contract is valued at $50,000.

ABOUT MODELVILLE: Five past contestants of America’s Next Top Model will come to New York to live in the Modelville apartment and compete to win a beauty contract with Carol’s Daughter. After being thoroughly educated about the brand, each model will be assigned a Carol’s Daughter product and will be responsible for creating, producing, and starring in a 30 second commercial for her product. The featured models and products include:

Bianca Golden, Cycle 9: Carol’s Daughter Candy Paint in Razz-Berry Beret, Cranberry Kiss, and Wild Berry

Renee Alway, Cycle 8: Carol’s Daughter Tui Hair Smoothie

Lauren Utter, Cycle 10: Carol’s Daughter Love Butter

Dominique Reighard, Cycle 10: Carol’s Daughter Lemon Ginger Mint Manicure in a Jar

Fatima Siad, Cycle 10: Carol’s Daughter Hair Milk

“These women have been taught, coached and embraced by the best, Tyra Banks. I could not be happier to be involved with this project with her. Tyra is the embodiment of "each one, teach one" except that this one teaches millions.” – Lisa Price, Founder, Carol’s Daughter
Check your local listings for the schedule.

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Friday, October 10, 2008

Date Doctor Edition: The Proper Way To Be Friends With Benefits

Men are seemingly born knowing how to detract emotions from sex, but women can have a harder time of it.

Ok, I know that I'm married now, but there was a time in my life where I had to make some serious decisions as a single woman: friends with benefits or no? Lucky for me, I chose the latter, but for those who are card-carrying members of FWB (Friends-With-Benefits) Worldwide, here is a proper way to carry on:

The proper way to be friends with benefits

There are times in every woman's life where her body wants either what her heart can't handle or her brain knows better.

Men are seemingly born knowing how to detract emotions from sex, but women can have a harder time of it.

You know the drill -- you want a man, but not a relationship. Or, more to the point, you want some loving, but don't want the strings attached.

Maybe you're wildly attracted to a dude physically, but find him mentally or morally lacking -- like a tanning technician or a bounty hunter.

There's no way you'd ever date him, but why should you deny yourself entirely?

Answer: Not a reason in the world.

Negotiating a long-term, friends-with-benefits type situation can be tricky for us ladies.

Dudes are seemingly born knowing how to detract emotions from physical activity. In fact, with many of them, I think it's their default setting. They can spend the night with a woman and then meander off into the sunset without giving the assignation a second thought.

But women can have a harder time of it. We worry that we're being "used" (hello? Pot meet Kettle!) or feel like we're being promiscuous -- talk about a double standard!

The trick is to accept what you've got with this person and avoid trying to make it something it'll never be. I've certainly been guilty of trying to turn a completely fine FWB into a BF, and the results were predictably disastrous.

So here are some pitfalls to avoid:

• Language: Yes, it helps if he speaks a foreign language you don't understand, but that's not what I'm talking about. Pronouns like us or we are to be avoided like an open sore and all talk of plans further into the future than an hour or two away is verboten.

• Meals: Acceptable FWB dining situations include shared bowls of cocktail peanuts, late-night grilled cheese sandwiches, and fancy desserts. Meals to be avoided are breakfast, brunch, dinner, with a special get-out-of-jail free card for lunch.

• Conversation: Questions any more probing than "what are you wearing?" and "when can we meet?" can get a little sticky. Your FWB doesn't want to hear about your crazy mom and you really don't want him to start yapping about his Ayn Rand fixation. Keep it light, keep it moving.

• Socializing: He doesn't meet your friends, you don't meet his. That goes double for family members. The best thing about having a FWB is that he's your dirty little secret.

I remember being out with a girlfriend and running into the French-Canadian model I was spending my nights with at the time. He kissed me hello as my friend's jaw dropped down three flights of stairs. Blushing, I introduced him to my buddy who was still having trouble recovering her powers of speech. As he walked away, she punched me. Hard. "Shut up!" she yelled. I just smiled.

On second thought, if he's that hot you might want to bring him around just for a drive-by.
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Strictly Fab Hotness: BMW Limited Edition 750 Li


Christmas is a-comin' and Neiman Marcus just released their official Holiday Gift Catalog. For those who have yet had the plearuse of perusing this fab catalog o'gifts, it is filled with "fantasy" gifts for the uber-rich. Some of the items in this year's catalog includes :

- $1.59 million private holiday concert for 500 people, hosted by Regis Philbin and performed in your hometown by the Kirov Orchestra featuring pianist Lola Astanova and led by maestro Valery Gergiev.

- $1.44 million submarine (?!)

- for $2 million you can pick up a Rocket Racing League Team. That includes a rocket that can fly at up to 320 mph on a "racetrack" about 1,000 feet in the air or one of 50 special edition Lexus cars that are part of the fastest production model the company has built. $68,000 NM Lexus IS F car can go from 0 to 60 in under 4.9 seconds, including a half day of pro-driver training

- 10-acre home site in Montana for $2.3 million.

- $73,000 Vertu Signature Diamond Phone has 7.2 carats of white and pink diamonds, 18-karat rose gold, with a pink leather case, works in more than 150 countries and features one-touch 24-hour global concierge service.

- $75,000 robot that can learn to recognize family members and carry on conversations

- $110,000 His and Hers gift is a portrait by Vik Muniz painted with chocolate syrup


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And for Neiman Marcus customers who want the new 2009 BMW 500Li:

Those who buy the 2009 750Li in this year’s Book will get one of only 31 made, to celebrate the 31st anniversary of the 7 Series. It’ll come in a special iridescent Diopside Black metallic paint, with Champagne leather seating with contrasting piping and trim pieces. It also comes with a custom steering wheel. Otherwise, it’s completely loaded with option packages that would bring a current 750 Li just over the $100,000 mark.
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Must be nice....

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Thursday, October 09, 2008

Strictly Fab Fashion Trend: Couture Obama Fashion

Sen. Barack Obama (aka "That One") is influencing everything these days--from the board room to Senate Chambers to the sidewalks of Main Street to the runway....

During this most recent installment of Paris Fashion Week, his influence could clearly be "seen."

Jean-Charles de Castelbajac

Sonya Rykiel

Sonya Rykiel

Straight from the source's mouth:
When it was reported that Donatella Versace's most recent men's collection was inspired by Barack Obama, Donatella was quick to correct the press. Obama himself didn't inspire her, but rather "the type of man Barack Obama represents." However designers showing at Paris Fashion Week conveyed no such reserves about using their runway shows to blatantly support Barack. Sonia Rykiel's spring 2009 collection included sweaters that read "I have a dream" and "Obama." Jean-Charles de Castelbajac put Barack's grinning face on a dress paired with gloves that read "yes" and "no" — probably his way of saying "rock the vote." And at the end of her program notes, Stella McCartney wrote, “P.S. Vote Obama!!” None of this surprises us. What does, however, is that Barack didn't permeate the collections in London, Milan, or New York in this way. Maybe designers in other parts of the world didn't want to add fuel to the whole Obama-is-a-celebrity fire? Like embracing a First Lady who's posed nude, leave it to the French to say, "Yes, we can!"
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Strictly Fab Pick: "The Starter Wife" starring Debra Messing

I love it when I don't actually have to write or do research for these posts...gives me more time to find other fab items for you all!

I received this tidbit recently so it's hot off the presses just for you all:

Calling all fashionistas of the world! Take note: celebrity stylists everywhere have discovered a new source of inspiration for their leading ladies – and it's not on the Manolo Blahnik-treaded streets of Madison Avenue. It's on La Brea, Pico, and Robertson Blvd. So if your inner fashionista goes by the nickname of "Carrie" or "Samantha", the time has come for you to move over or move WEST. A fashion revolution is underway, and it's happening on the sandal-treaded streets of sunny L.A.

There's no need to worry. While "Carrie" may be stepping down from her pedestal, "Molly" is stepping up. Meet your new fashion icon, Molly Kagan. She's single; she's stressed; she's the former wife of a Hollywood hotshot; and she always fashionable. She's "The Starter Wife" and to fashionistas everywhere, she's America's new leading lady.

Premiering October 10 on USA Networks and featuring the Emmy award-winning actress Debra Messing (no stranger to Best Dressed lists) Molly Kagan is destined to become the newest member of the TV fashion icon generation. As a fashionable 40+ year old woman – a category often overlooked in television today – Molly Kagan shows women everywhere that 40 is the new 30.

The Looks of Molly Kagan

Top by Ralph Lauren; skirt custom made; belt Betsey Johnson; purse by Tory Burch; shoes by Jimmy Choo. Episode #5

Turtleneck by Theory; muffler by Chanel; boots by Mukluk. Episode #3

Turtleneck & skirt by Ralph Lauren; shoes by Moschino; necklace by Kara Ross; bracelets by Lauren Wolf; purse by Lambertson Truex. Episode #2

Jacket by Phillip Lim; turtleneck by Michael Kors; jeans by 7 for all Mankind; boots by Christian Louboutin. Episode #1

On Debra: Trench by Burberry; purse by Romanek; earrings by Alexis Bittar; shoes by Gucci; On Jaden (little girl): Pink tench by Troi Zenfants, skirt by Oilily; Romanek bag. Episode #4

Here's an extra for you! Lead stylist, Agata Maskiewics talks about her role as stylist and the fashion of "The Starter Wife:"

Being a costume designer must be a fun job! How did you get your start?
I started working in the film & TV industry after graduating from the Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising where I studied fashion design. I started as an intern on a feature film and worked my way up holding various positions in the costume department.


How is styling a celebrity different from styling a character in film or television?

While I don’t particularly style celebrities, I feel that the main difference is that when designing a character the job is to transform an actor into the character they are portraying. Often times the costumes can really help an actor make the transition into the character they are set to play. Also, sometimes the costumes are not meant to be flattering; depending on the character, the goal isn’t always to make them look beautiful. But when styling a celebrity, it’s all about having them look amazing.

What role does fashion play in The Starter Wife?
Fashion is almost like another character in The Starter Wife. So much of the personality of the actors comes through in the clothing they wear. Our goal is to have the audience as excited about the fashions as they are the characters. We want the people at home to feel as though they can hear the ruffle of Molly’s Zac Posen silk dress and smell the exquisite leather of her Manolos. We want them to daydream about getting into Molly’s closet and have the opportunity to dress from it everyday as she does. And yes, the closet is huge, since as a Hollywood woman, she never repeats an outfit!

Thanks Dina from eye4style.com for the great interview!

I'll be watching! Keep it strictly stylish!

Wednesday, October 08, 2008

MAN DAY: Wear It Loud And Proud!


Fashion acts quickly! After Sen. John McCain referred to Sen. Barack Obama as "That One" during last night's presidential debate, T-shirts are already available for sale.




You can purchase them here. Keep it strictly stylish!

MAN DAY: Esquire Names Halle Berry As the Sexiest Woman Alive

Happy Man Day! This is a special goody for you fellas:

Esquire just named the one of our favorite fab divas, Halle Berry, as it Sexiest Woman Alive. Check out the flicks from the spread below. She recreated the Bill Clinton cover and also wore "creatively" recreated some other famous covers....

Typical (yeah, right!) re-creation of Bill Clinton's cover:


Now for the "creative" poses:


Here's an excerpt from the article:

Wow. Sexiest woman alive, huh?

I've been in the business for more than twenty years, and you decide now, at this particular time, that I'm the sexiest woman alive? Come on. I mean, you couldn't go with the Bond-girl year? You didn't like the orange bikini? I liked the orange bikini. That would have been a pretty good year. Or what about the Monster's Ball year? That was a sexy moment. Couldn't you have packaged that up with some list of the best movie sex scenes ever? That would have been very easy, very magaziney. But 2008? Well, I don't know exactly what it means, but being forty-two and having just had a baby, I think I'll take it. There are billions of women on the planet, but let's just say for shits and giggles that I am the sexiest woman alive. First, I would have to thank all the people who made it happen. I would thank the good folks at Esquire for thinking outside the box -- even if those folks are just eight editors wearing competing seventy-five-dollar button-down shirts, swinging themselves around in cheap desk chairs in some windowless conference room somewhere above Manhattan. I'd also have to thank my "team," the ones who make the magic happen -- my hair designer, my stylist, my makeup artist, and my beloved trainer. And I would absolutely have to thank the photographer, because without him, the camera is all lies of a different sort. I mean, look at the pictures. That takes a lot of work. I'm lucky to have these people. Don't think I don't know it.

Read the rest here. Have a strictly stylish day!

Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Strictly Fab Health: 10 Dangerous Lies Women Tell Their Doctors



Remember this story on how some women never get sick? Well, apparently, one more tidbit should have been added to the list: Tell your doctor the truth!
Now, I know that I lie to my doctor occasionally about the very little things--don't want to hear the lecture or don't want to sound like a hypochondriac. But, for the big things that keep me up at night, you best believe that I make a beeline straight to the doctor's office and spill the beans! Check out this story from the Today show. It will shock you....


It's normal to fib about some things. "So sorry we won't make the potluck — can't find a sitter." You promise your mother you'll call. But the one person you should never, ever lie to is your doctor. Yet we do. All the time...
The danger
A national survey recently revealed that 52 percent of women routinely stretch the truth when they talk to their doctors — exaggerating how much exercise they get, lowballing how much they smoke or drink, even hiding sexual behavior. We lie, mainly, because we know we're not being as dedicated as we should and we don't want to feel judged or endure a lecture we've heard before. (Hey, we're not stupid. Lazy, perhaps, but not stupid!)

Other lies just...slip out. It can be hard in a short visit to bring up behavior we might be ashamed of (even if there's no reason to be — docs have seen and heard it all before, and worse). We figure, what's the harm in omitting a few minor details — like that STD we had in college, or that one time we forgot to take our birth control?

In fact, more than a quarter of the women in the survey didn't believe their lies were a big deal. But lying to the one person who really needs to know the truth — and is bound by doctor/patient privilege and federal law to keep that info private — can be a very big deal. When you tell even a fib, your doctor can't diagnose you correctly, which wastes your time and money and may keep her from giving treatment that could save your life. So the next time you're tempted to make like Pinocchio with one of the following falsehoods, here's the truth about why you should tell nothing but.

Flossing
The lie: "Of course I floss!"

"When I was in practice, I heard this lie every day," laughs Paula Jones, D.D.S., now president of the Academy of General Dentistry. "I'd ask, 'How often?'" And the truth would start to come out. "They'd say, 'Oh, a couple of times a week' or 'I only do this one tooth where food gets caught.'"

Why you should come clean: Neglecting to floss leads directly to tooth decay, gum inflammation, and gum disease — and a growing body of research suggests that gum disease may contribute to cardiovascular disease. Some studies also suggest a link between gum disease and a life-threatening pregnancy complication called preeclampsia. If you cop to being a non-flosser, your dentist can make doubly sure to watch for and help you prevent these dangerous conditions.
STDs
The lie: "I've never had an STD."

"Many women are embarrassed about having had a sexually transmitted disease," says Dimino. Jessica, 37, never let on that she'd had chlamydia and HPV in college because she was afraid she'd be denied health insurance when setting up her own business. But she also believed it wasn't anyone else's affair. "My feeling was: That was then; it's taken care of, so they don't need to know," says the Littleton, CO, Web designer.

Why you should come clean: The ghosts of STDs past can come back to haunt you later. Hiding that you had HPV may put you at higher risk for cervical cancer if your gyno doesn't think you need annual Pap tests. Keeping quiet may also put you at risk for pregnancy complications.

For instance, if your doctor knows you've had gonorrhea or chlamydia — especially if you also developed pelvic inflammatory disease — she'll watch more carefully for ectopic pregnancy, since both can scar the fallopian tubes, preventing a fertilized egg from reaching the uterus. And telling your ob that you have genital herpes when you're pregnant may help you avoid a predelivery flare-up — and a C-section as a result. "If you tell me you have it, even if your last flare-up was ages ago, I can put you on medication to suppress an outbreak before delivery," says Dimino.

Drinking
The lie: "I'm not a big drinker."

Doctors have an unspoken rule: Whatever you tell them you drink, they double it. "Lots of women claim, 'I drink once a week,'" says Rakhi Dimino, M.D., an ob/gyn at the Woman's Hospital of Texas in Houston. "But then they drink six or seven cocktails in an evening."

"I always lie about drinking," admits Amanda, 33, an entertainment coordinator from Orlando, FL. "My doctor prescribed me the antidepressant Zoloft and told me not to drink any alcohol while taking it. Then I went to a wine tasting and drank anyway." That night, she awoke in a cold sweat with heart palpitations. "At the emergency room, the doctor asked me which drugs I was on. When I said Zoloft, he asked if I'd taken any drugs or drunk any alcohol. I flat-out lied and said that I'd had not a drop."

The ER staff tried to sleuth out what else could be making Amanda ill; then her blood alcohol test came back. "The doctor said, 'The test shows you've been drinking, and this is a common reaction with Zoloft and alcohol.' He told me that I would have saved a lot of time and money if I'd been honest. I didn't say a thing. I just wanted to get out of there with my tail between my legs."

Why you should come clean: Drug and alcohol interactions are very common. If your doctor knows that you imbibe, even a little, she can prescribe meds that won't mix badly with a glass of wine. She can also counsel you on alcohol's risks for women. For starters, having one to two drinks a day can raise your risk for breast cancer; heavy consumption is linked to liver disease, brain damage, and stroke and can put you at risk for assault and car accidents.

Concealing what you drink may signal another disease: "Denial is part of addiction," says Brenda Iliff, clinical director of Hazelden Women's Recovery Center in Center City, MN.

Sex
The lie: "I'm monogamous."

Cheryl, 48, went to see her gyno for what she thought was a yeast infection — and was shocked to learn she actually had trichomoniasis, an STD. She didn't want to admit she was juggling four guys, so when the doctor asked how many partners she had, "I said one, of course," recalls the accountant from Knoxville, TN. The doctor gave Cheryl enough medication for her and her partner. But Cheryl kept seeing the other guys too.

"I went back for my checkup, and my gyno says, 'You still have this. You haven't told me the whole truth, have you?' I said, 'Yes, I have.' She didn't want to call me a liar, but she said, 'You have to treat everyone you're seeing, or quit seeing the ones you don't want and treat the one you do. Otherwise, you'll never get rid of this.'" Cheryl dumped the other guys and continued treatment with her main man. "But afterward, I changed doctors," she admits. "I couldn't face her anymore."

Why you should come clean: Your doctor doesn't ask about your sex life to judge your morals. What does concern her is that sleeping with more than one person may increase your risk for STDs. Delayed STD treatment can mean a more entrenched pelvic infection, fertility problems — even cervical cancer. "If your gyno knows you have several partners, she may recommend you have an annual Pap test and get screened more frequently for STDs," says Dimino.
Exercise
The lie: "I watch what I eat and exercise."

"I have patients who swear they're exercising and sticking to the calorie count," says Bonnie Davis, an advanced registered nurse practitioner in Largo, FL, who helps administer a weight-management program. "Yet they've put on 5 pounds while taking an appetite suppressant three times a day. That's impossible."

Meredith, 26, sticks with the purposely vague "sometimes" when asked how often she exercises. "I wouldn't feel right saying 'regularly,'" says the writer from Forest Hills, NY. "But when I say, 'Sometimes,' I consider that I walk to the subway every day, and if I'm not wearing heels, I walk fairly briskly." In other words, she's not lying outright — just bending the truth enough to spare herself the inevitable lecture. "I know that losing 10 pounds could lower my risk for heart disease and diabetes, and diabetes does run in my family," Meredith says. "But I don't want to hear it. I'd rather doctors think that I take it seriously than give them the opportunity to tell me what I already know but still am not paying attention to."

Why you should come clean: If your blood pressure and cholesterol are high or you're borderline diabetic — all factors that can boost your risk for cardiovascular disease — diet and exercise can help, which is why your doctor asks about them. But if you're not really making either lifestyle change and your numbers don't get lower, your doc may put you through a battery of pricey medical tests and/or prescribe a range of medications to lower them for you.

And while taking a pill may sound easier than counting calories and hitting the gym, it actually "opens up a Pandora's box of inconvenience," says Nora Tossounian, M.D., an internist at the Women's Health Center at Hackensack University Medical Center in New Jersey. Start with the nuisance of remembering to take medication once or twice a day; add to that the high cost of those meds. Then there are the side effects: muscle aches on statins; bloating, cramping, and diarrhea on diabetes medications; a plunging sex drive with certain blood pressure drugs. The truth hurts less.

Smoking
The lie: "I don't smoke."

When Pamela Douglas, M.D., a cardiologist at Duke University Medical Center in Durham, NC, asks women if they smoke, she often hears a little moment of hesitation before they say no. "They believe you need to smoke two packs a day to be at risk," she explains. "They say they don't smoke them all the way down or they're not really inhaling. If they've only been smoking a year or two or they don't smoke every day, they think they're not really smokers."

Why you should come clean: Reality check: If you light up, even if it's only one on the weekends, even if you just bum a drag from your friend, you smoke. Beyond an increased risk for sinus and upper respiratory infections, emphysema, cardiovascular disease, and, yes, lung cancer, lighting up — even occasionally — raises your risk for blood clots and stroke if you're also using hormone-based contraceptives (pills, patches, rings).

"If there's a pause when I ask them if they smoke and they say, 'No' or 'Maybe once a month,' I'm hesitant to give that woman a prescription for the Pill" to help clear up her skin, says David Bank, M.D., medical director of the Center for Dermatology, Cosmetic and Laser Surgery in Mount Kisco, NY. Tell the truth so you and your doc can figure out a safe option together.

Sunscreen
The lie: "I use sunscreen every day."

"Along with 'I'm not tan — this is my natural skin color,' this one's at the top of the list of lies we hear all day," chuckles Bank. "We ask every patient whether they use sunscreen every day, and about 10 percent to 20 percent of the responses we get are false or exaggerated."

Why you should come clean: Skin cancer is the most common cancer in the United States; since 1980, the rate of melanoma (the most serious form of skin cancer) has jumped by 50 percent for women between the ages of 15 and 39, according to new research from the National Cancer Institute. If you admit you're not slathering on sunscreen (SPF 30 or higher, applied liberally to exposed areas), your doctor may schedule more frequent screenings — this way, if skin cancer does develop, it'll be caught early.

Being truthful about sunscreen use can also help him decide whether to prescribe certain meds, like Retin-A for acne and wrinkles, that can make you more sensitive to the sun.

Prescription medicines
The lie: "I'm taking my medication the way you prescribed it."

Alicia, 31, often used her asthma inhaler up to five times a day, despite her doctor's warnings. When he noted her trembling hands and pallid face, "I swore I wasn't abusing it, because I was afraid he'd take it away," says the Orlando, FL, day-care teacher. "I didn't care about the risks as long as I could breathe."

Why you should come clean: If you tell your doctor your medication isn't working, or has side effects, he can find one that suits you better (which is what Alicia's new doc eventually did). But if you don't use it correctly, you could end up even sicker.

Take a typically misused drug like a routine antibiotic: "If you lie and say you finished your antibiotics, but you're still sick, the doctor will assume the first drug didn't work," says Maurice A. Ramirez, D.O., Ph.D., an emergency-room physician at Florida Hospital-Flagler Division in Palm Coast. "So he'll change the antibiotic. Meanwhile, the bacteria become resistant to the drug we normally use, and they crank along unimpeded, and you can go from a bladder infection to a kidney inflection to a blood infection."

OTC medicines
The lie: "I'm not taking any medication."

This one's told so often, doctors say, that they always dig deeper when they hear it. Sometimes it's an honest mistake: "People don't classify over-the-counter drugs like Tylenol, herbal supplements, or vitamins as medication," says Gillian Stephens, M.D., an assistant professor of community and family medicine at Saint Louis University in St. Louis. "But they are." Women also keep mum, though, when they've "borrowed" an Ambien from a friend or bought Hoodia online to lose weight.

Why you should come clean: Your doctor may adjust your dosage of a drug if he knows you're taking something else that could alter its effects. "Hearing that someone's taking ibuprofen, which is a weak blood thinner, is useful if you're adding other thinners," says John H. Alexander, M.D., a cardiologist at Duke University Medical Center.

Not to mention, what he doesn't know could kill you. It's not unusual for doctors to realize that you've taken something you didn't tell them about only after they've given you another medication--and the combination has caused you to stop breathing, have a seizure, or go into cardiac arrest.

Contraception
The lie: "I always use birth control."

"The lie I hear day after day is, 'The condom broke,'" says Millicent Comrie, M.D., vice chair of obstetrics and gynecology at Long Island College Hospital in Brooklyn, NY. "Women often say that when they get pregnant by accident and don't want to admit that they didn't use a condom." Sound familiar? How about this: "Women fudge the truth about whether they put their diaphragms in or took them out and whether they take their pills every day at the same time," says Bruce Rosenzweig, M.D., director of urogynecology at Rush University Medical Center in Chicago. "They're embarrassed because they know they should be able to handle these things."

Why you should come clean: There are tons of contraception options out there these days. If you fess up to messing up with birth control, your gyno can suggest one that might suit you better. "If you hate to swallow pills, you have oily skin and the patch keeps falling off, or the ring comes out when your partner pulls out, I can give you something else," says Rosenzweig. "But if you don't tell me, I can't make the appropriate recommendations."

Coming clean with your doctor only stands to help you in the long run, as difficult as it may be in the moment. So answer her questions honestly — and even bring up issues that she may be forgetting to ask about. When it comes to your health, there's no such thing as TMI.

Source

Ladies, take heed and tell your doctor the truth. He/She probably knows that you're lying anyway...

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Strictly Fab Beauty: Saks Fifth Avenue Polished Face Kit


Marc Jacobs and Saks Fifth Avenue have teamed up to present The Polished Face Kit, a splendiferous bag of beauty. Get your beauty products and a fab clutch to boot! Here are the details:

Saks Fifth Avenue

Polished Face Kit

EXCLUSIVELY AT SAKS. Tucked inside this Marc Jacobs leather clutch is everything you'll need to achieve a fresh, polished face. Includes Dior 5-Color Eyeshadow compact in Tender Chic, Nars The Multiple in Copacabana, Yves Saint Laurent Touch Blush in Number 2, Giorgio Armani Gloss in Number 16, Guerlain Le 2 Two-Brush Mascara in black and a deluxe sample of Chanel Sublimage. Clutch has zip top and logo plaque.
Purchase it here. Have a strictly stylish day!

Monday, October 06, 2008

Maternal Style File: Angelina Jolie

Angelina Jolie looks grrrr-eat after the twins! She and pseudo-hubby Brad Pitt were out and about on the town recently and she posed for some photo ops. A little weight does her good, doesn't it?

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Strictly Fab Diva of the Day: Valerie Jarrett

"Behind every great man there is a great woman."

Senator Obama has one secret weapon in his wife, Michelle. The other is his chief confidante and valued adviser, Chicago businesswoman Valerie Jarrett. Just who is this hidden tower of strength? asks Jonathan Van Meter.

Even our greatest leaders have someone holding up their back...even when we think it's all done by themselves. Our democratic presidential nominee, Sen. Barack Obama (who will be our next prez!) has two great women behind him: his beautiful wife, Michelle, and Chicago businesswoman, Valerie Jarrett.

Excerpted from Vogue

One day in the summer of 1991, when Valerie Jarrett was Chicago mayor Richard Daley's deputy chief of staff, the woman who worked in the office next door to Jarrett handed her the résumé of one Michelle LaVaughn Robinson. Robinson was a young lawyer at Sidley Austin, the fifth-largest law firm in the world, doing marketing and intellectual-property work in their headquarters nearby. The résumé highlighted the fact that the 27-year-old had grown up on the South Side of Chicago, had gone to Princeton and then to Harvard Law; what it did not point out was that her father, a city water-pump operator and Democratic precinct captain, had died of multiple sclerosis the year before, a shocking blow that led to a change of heart in the young lawyer about her choices in life. On the cover letter, someone at City Hall had written something like THIS WOMAN IS NO LONGER INTERESTED IN BEING AT HER LAW FIRM. SHE WANTS TO BE IN GOVERNMENT AND GIVE BACK. Susan Sher, the woman who worked in the office next to Jarrett, said, "She is made for you. This is exactly what you did." Jarrett immediately picked up the phone and called the young lawyer in for an interview.
Read the rest here.

She is super-duper fly and is now my-mentor-in-my-head...

FYI, this is the source of the original quote from above:

The first printed citation I can find is from the Texas newspaper The Port Arthur News, from February 1946. This was headed - "Meryll Frost - 'Most courageous athlete of 1945'":

"As he received his trophy, the plucky quarterback unfolded the story of how he 'came back'. He said 'They say behind every great man there's a woman. While I'm not a great man, there's a great woman behind me.

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Friday, October 03, 2008

Strictly Fab Tips For Hosting a Debate-Watching Party


The Biden/Palin debate last night was a blast! I enjoyed it---but I am still an ardent Obama supporter. Methinks I will have a fab debate/cocktail party for the next scheduled debate. Here are some fab tips on how to host a splendid debate party (grabbed from YumSugar):

Last week the series of presidential debates began and tonight the saga continues with a showdown between vice-presidential candidates Joe Biden and Sarah Palin. It's the perfect occasion to throw an impromptu viewing party! Hosting a debate party is a great way to feel more involved in the election process. To help you quickly plan a fabulous fete, I've rounded up some tips and ideas. Get them now and read more.

  • Send a presidential themed evite to let friends know about the party.
  • Make sure there is plenty of comfortable seating and that everyone can see the TV.
  • Turn up the volume and put closed captioning on. When some of the crowd gets too noisy, dedicated debate watchers can read what the candidates are saying.
  • If you have a laptop and WiFi connection, set up the computer on a nearby coffee table and participate in CitizenSugar's live chat.
  • Play a drinking game by setting up rules like drink every time Palin says "small town" or drink whenever Biden uses the word "Scranton."
  • Download bingo cards and have guests play bingo. Give small bottles of liquor to the winners.
  • Create a patriotic atmosphere by decorating with red, white, and blue.
  • Before the fun begins and while guests are arriving, ask trivia questions about the candidates.
  • To be really official, register your event online.
  • Stock up on plenty of drinks and delicious snacks.
  • If your friends have different political views, establish a few ground rules when everyone arrives, so no brawls break out.

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Thursday, October 02, 2008

These Boots Are Made For Walking?

Antonio Berardi worn by Victoria Beckham at fragrance launch

Look at these babies worn by Posh Beckham at a fragrance launch event in NYC last week. They seem to defy gravity, motion, and complete common sense. Snatched from the Guardian:

Man, sometimes I'm so fashion forward I scare myself. So it seems that the world and its auntie is in a tizzy over Victoria Beckham and her heelless boots. Um, hello! Some of us were working that look a year ago. And by "working it", I mean "slipped them on backstage for five minutes" but still, they graced my feet before Lady B's.

A bit of context: exactly a year ago this week, designer Antonio Berardi first brought out his heelless shoes at his show in Paris. Models have fallen down in shows before - Naomi Campbell when modelling for Vivienne Westwood most famously, and more went down, domino-style, in the Prada show last week - but never before had it seemed as though that was the designer's intention. That the catwalk was concrete added an extra element of anxiety. Yet the models remained steady on their feet. Some even looked almost comfortable. Suddenly, a whole new world of accessory possibilities opened up: heelless shoes! How had I never noticed this gaping hole in my wardrobe?

So afterwards I ran backstage, gave the requisite absolutely-fabulous-darling-mwah-mwah-you're-a-genius to the designer, grabbed those shoes in my meaty paws and shoved them on. And here's the extraordinary thing: they were actually really easy to walk in, and I tell you this as someone who feels precarious whenever she has to swap her ballet pumps for, well, anything. I think the trick is that the shoes are extremely heavy, because they are deliberately weighted in the platform base under the toe. This means that all your weight is forced forwards and then downwards, so you literally cannot tip backwards and there isn't any of that teeter-totter nonsense you get with normal heels.

Shoes have been getting increasingly extreme in the past two years as designers have realised customers are more willing to fork out on accessories than clothes. The rise and rise (literally) of shoes also explains the popularity of the platform, allowing wearers to hoik themselves up an extra 2in on top of their 5in heels. So perhaps heelless shoes were the inevitable next frontier in the never-ending quest by designers to re-invent the wheel and then flog it back to customers.

So popular were Berardi's shoes that the next season he made them as boots, which is what my bandwagon-jumper, Victoria, wore this weekend.

One nil to me. But our chiropractors will probably come out on top in the end.

According to the the writer, Hadley Freeman, they were "actually really easy to walk in." Ha! I don't know if I believe that one...but the physics make sense....

Here are a few more flicks for your delight:


Would you rock these kicks?

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Strictly Fab Health: How Some Women Never Get Sick

Hello fab readers! Here are some great health tips for my fashionistas, via CNN:

How some women never get sick

They survive cold season without a sniffle. They fly in germ-packed airplanes unscathed. And they somehow avoid stomach bugs that decimate the office. Wish you could be one of these women who never get sick? Try one or -- even better -- all of these seven secrets, and you may join this club come flu season.

Some say getting a massage once a month is key to fighting off bugs.

Some say getting a massage once a month is key to fighting off bugs.

1. Get a massage

For the past three years, Mindy Hardwick, 38, of Lake Stevens, Washington, has dodged all the major bugs while volunteering at schools and a juvenile-detention center. Her secret weapon: a monthly massage. Hardwick even sailed through a move (selling her first house) without the post stress blahs. "It's got to be the massage," she says. "I'm convinced it's like taking medicine."

Most studies show that massage can reduce anxiety, blood pressure, and heart rate -- and lowering these is likely to cause your stress level to drop, one key to building immunity. Health.com: What kind of massage is best for you?

"Decreasing stress increases your immune cells," says Tiffany Field, PhD, director of the Touch Research Institute of the University of Miami School of Medicine.

Make massage work for you: Any type of rubdown is fine, as long as you ask for moderate pressure, Field says. The therapist's touch should be vigorous enough to move or indent skin but not so hard that it causes pain. How often do you need one? There's no science on that, but experts say once a month (or more) is worthwhile. Check with your insurance provider to see if massage therapy is covered. If cost is an issue, check out massage schools, which sometimes offer discounted services.

You can take matters into your own hands, too, by showering with a stiff, natural-bristle brush; like moderate-pressure massage, this stimulates pressure receptors under the skin, Field says. A brush we like: Earth Therapeutics Far Reaching Back Brush ($7; www.mothernature.com) And couples who massage each other for 10 minutes a few times a week can reap significant benefits, Field adds. Tune up your technique with Gaiam's Massage Practice: Acupressure DVD ($10; www.gaiam.com).

2. Take a cold shower

Gwendolyn Witherspoon, 54, of Baltimore, came across her stay-healthy secret -- an icy shower -- during a power outage. "I felt great afterward," she says. A year later, she says her chilly regimen keeps her cold-free, her skin glowing, and her energy level higher than ever. Health.com: Boost your energy

The scientific jury's still out on cold showers, but Mary Ann Bauman, MD, author of "Fight Fatigue: Six Simple Steps to Maximize Your Energy," says there's no harm in trying. Devotees claim cold showers help with low energy, migraines, circulation, and pain reduction, in addition to enabling women to age gracefully. (Some even argue that they're the French woman's secret to firm breasts.)

Make cold showers work for you: Try small doses. Witherspoon limits her 10-minute cold showers to summertime; in the winter, she opts for a 1-minute blast at the end of a warm shower.

Consult your doctor if you have cardiovascular problems, because the sudden chill can cause a spike in blood pressure.

3. Treat GI problems "gingerly"

In the last five years, Gwynne Berry, 39, of Waterbury, Vermont, has avoided serious bouts of constipation by sipping a soothing home brew. When irregularity looms, she puts a few slices of peeled fresh ginger into a mug of hot water, steeps it for five minutes, and adds honey. "It tastes great and works like a charm," Berry says. She sees results in about three hours, sans the diarrhea many conventional laxatives cause.

For centuries, ginger has been the go-to root for a wide range of GI distresses. Researchers believe its compounds stimulate digestive secretions, improve intestinal muscle tone, and help move food through the gastrointestinal tract.

It's also safe to take ginger in small doses (less than 1,000 milligrams) for a short period of time during pregnancy, says Joyce Frye, a doctor of osteopathy and clinical assistant professor at the Center for Integrative Medicine at the University of Maryland School of Medicine in Baltimore, Maryland. Berry used it during both her pregnancies and had little morning sickness.

Make ginger work for you: Fresh ginger sipped in tea or eaten straight-up is best, says Sari Greaves, RD, of New York Presbyterian Hospital--Weill Cornell Medical Center in New York City. But ginger in other forms (dried, powdered, cooked) can be effective, too. A tea to try: Yogi Lemon Ginger Tea and Traditional Medicinals' Organic Ginger Aid ($4 to $5; grocery stores). Ginger ale? Most brands have little or no real ginger and lots of high-fructose corn syrup.

4. Lather up (a lot)

Chris Pope Campbell, 39, of East Greenwich, Rhode Island, washes her hands up to a dozen times a day after using the restroom, upon returning home after work and errands, after blowing her nose, before eating. That's unusual. Surveys suggest less than half of us are so vigilant. Campbell's thrilled with the results: "I rarely get a cold, and there hasn't been a stomach flu in my family for more than five years."

While washing your hands that much may seem like a hassle, Campbell says it's become a comfortable habit. The only downside is that her hands get dry, so she has to moisturize frequently.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention say hand-washing is the number-one action you can take to dodge the 1 billion colds Americans come down with annually, not to mention bacteria that cause foodborne illnesses such as E. coli and salmonella.

Make hand-washing work for you: Wash with regular soap and warm water for at least 20 seconds (the time it takes to sing "Happy Birthday" twice). Vigorously scrub all parts of your hands, not just palms, and check your fingernails for trapped dirt. Dry with paper towels, or designate a hand towel for each member of your household. (They can reuse these several times.) And don't forget to wash after gardening, working out, and handling raw meat or fish.

Also, keep alcohol wipes or alcohol-based cleaning gel handy when using ATM machines and grocery carts, taking public transportation, and reading magazines in waiting rooms, says Neil Schachter, MD, director of respiratory care at Mt. Sinai Medical Center in New York City. Alcohol kills bacteria and the viruses that cause colds. But don't use antibacterial and/or antimicrobial products: They have chemicals that can lead common bac­teria to adapt and turn into superbugs. Health.com: The lowdown on germ-killing wipes

5. Try a cold-blasting cocktail

The überhealthy don't shrug off an impending cold -- they attack it. Jenny Spring, 29, of Cambridge, Massachusetts, takes a double shot of vitamin C and zinc at the first sign of ominous sniffles or throat tickles. She sips the powdered drink mix Emergen-C (it packs 1,000 mg of vitamin C) once or twice a day, followed by a few blasts of Zicam, an over-the-counter zinc nasal spray. "I've warded off coughs and colds long enough that I don't remember the last time I had one," she says.

Although vitamin C and zinc for cold prevention remain controversial, some studies show that C is especially helpful for people who are under extreme stress and that zinc can prevent viruses from multiplying. Experts say there's no harm in trying -- and just believing these remedies work may help, too.

Make C work for you: Schacter suggests a more conservative amount of vitamin C (500 mg a day) at the first sign of a cold. And the Institute of Medicine advises drawing the line at 2,000 mg daily to avoid gastrointestinal or kidney problems. As for zinc, it's available in many forms. Don't care for nose sprays? Schacter suggests taking zinc lozenges several times a day when a cold starts. Health.com: Vitamin C: The ultimate anti-aging vitamin

6. Eat more garlic

Susan Spain, 54, of Conyers, Georgia, hasn't been sick since 1992, and she credits that to one daily ritual: eating a clove of raw garlic right after breakfast. "I quarter it and put it in applesauce so it is easier to swallow and doesn't upset my stomach."

Spain is onto something. Garlic is rich in antioxidants that boost immunity and fight inflammation, says Carmia Borek, PhD, research professor in the department of public health and family medicine at Tufts University School of Medicine in Boston, Massachusetts. That means the herb, in addition to boosting defenses against everyday illness, probably helps to stave off cancer and boost heart health.

Make garlic work for you: If you're worried about bad breath and yucky burps, you're not alone. Those side effects aren't unusual, and experts warn that garlic can cause gas and acid reflux in some people. Still, up to two cloves a day is considered safe for most. Happily, there are options with fewer side effects. Aged-garlic extract is a great odor-free alternative, and it even has a higher concentration of the potent compounds that make garlic a superfood, Borek says. Try Kyolic Aged Garlic Extract Capsules ($14; health-food stores). PS: Eating garlicky food can't hurt, but cooking depletes some of the pungent bulb's useful properties.

7. Stay positive

At the first sign of sickness, Jenny Spring, 29, of Cambridge, Massachusetts, practices another tactic linked to good health: "I tell myself that I refuse to be sick."

Is she crazy to think that works? Not at all. In one study, participants who had heightened activity in a region of the brain associated with a positive attitude produced greater amounts of flu antibodies. Another study showed that people with sunny dispositions churned out more antibodies in response to vaccinations.

Researchers aren't clear on the connection, but they do know "the brain communicates with the immune system, and vice versa," says Anna L. Marsland, PhD, director of the Behavioral Immunology Laboratory at the University of Pittsburgh. And a growing number of psychologists stress that focusing on wellness, as opposed to illness, can have good results.

Make positive thinking work for you: If you don't always think positively, experts say, you can at least learn to be less negative. Don't dwell on your symptoms when you do get sick, and try not to assume the worst (like telling yourself, "I always get sick this time of year" or "This cold blows the whole week"). Practice focusing on your strengths and how you feel when you use them. Slowly, you'll recognize that these feelings are more rewarding than negative feelings.

"You probably can't change your personality," Marsland says, "but you can change your behavior." Odds are, you'll join the ranks of the perennially healthy.

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Strictly Fab Beauty: New. MAC for Ungaro. Limited Edition.

MAC has a deliciously lush deluxe line created especially for Emanuel Ungaro. From the MAC site:

Dreamy, softly impressionistic, reverential...To celebrate his exciting debut, It-Designer, Esteban Cortazar, celebrity makeup artist, Sharon Dowsett, and M·A·C come together backstage to create a colour collection in the spirit of today's Ungaro.

The line includes lipstick, blush, lip gloss, eyeshadow, AKA The Works! Check the site for more product info and pics.

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Wednesday, October 01, 2008

Strictly Fab Shoe Alert: Puma's Speedcat Model Equestrian Boot

Look at this hot piece of property:


From Style.com:

It seems that the dream of combining the comfort of a sneaker with the sophistication of a more stylish shoe isn't dead yet. Athletic giant Puma has reimagined its popular Speedcat model as an equestrian boot. The Re-Luxe has a slim, pull-on shaft of matte suede and is finished in glossy leather with the brand's signature curved pattern stitched into the foot. The result: one sleek boot that, pardon the cliché, really was made for walking. Puma The Black Label Speedcat Re-Luxe boot, $390. Available at Puma, NYC, (212) 334-7861, www.puma.com


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MAN DAY: Ten Types of Women to Avoid

Happy Man Day! Yesterday, I published a piece from Be Better Guys for the ladies about the types of men to avoid. Well, here is the original piece that started it all out. Enjoy!


“Women, can't live with them, can't live without them.” – Desiderius Erasmus, 16th Century
“Don’t date the Cat Lady.” -- My (suspiciously-married) buddy Dave, 21st Century

The subject of women – who to pursue and who to avoid - has been discussed, fought-over, dissected, and eventually the conclusions are passed-down from generation to generation. What every guys should know are the women you should never consider dating, even remotely seriously. Sure, there are probably thousands of Internet-fueled “lists” of women to avoid. I am assuming the task of compiling a “Top 10” list from my experiences and will try very hard not to regurgitate many of the hack, gender-specific generalizations (see: cat lady). I’m going for originality here.I hope this list helps you identify and avoid the hell-spawn that walk among us. Consider yourself warned.

Ten Types Of Women To Avoid

  1. The "Has‑a‑Boyfriend‑but‑They‑Break‑up‑Once‑a‑Week” type. You know this girl. She dumps Bob, she takes Bob back. An endless cycle. She is in an abusive/unhappy relationship and she is in over her head. Her Ike Turner suitor screws up big time, her friends keep her away from him and succeed in getting her back in regular circulation. And you meet her at the nightclub, where she’s vamping it up and throwing them down. Looks like an easy hook up! Not so fast, Kemo Sabe. This gal is just plain evil. She is just looking for a quick fix and will subsequently ruin your life. Especially if she develops into our second favorite type...
  2. The “My-Ex-is-Stalking-Me-Now” type. Locks are changed. Cell phone screening follows. This woman is especially dangerous if the “ex” in question has had any official military training, a penchant for guns or knives, or watches Ultimate Fighting on even a semi-regular basis. I don’t want to admit to how many times I have driven my date back to her home only to hear “Oh crap! {Insert formidable name here} is home. Drop me off down the street please.” Forget her address. Forget her phone number. Hell, forget her name! This can manifest itself into more drama than the series finale of "Friends." Remember them?
  3. The "1am-Drunk-Phone-Call" type. Note: there is very little that a person could possibly want to talk meaningfully about at 1am. I know, because I make phone calls at 1am. I think the approved topics are limited to "sex" and "my car is broken down, I need a ride." 99 percent of the time, her car is peachy. This is certainly not the worst woman in the world, but probably not marriage material, either. You may also include “the 1am knock at the door” type in this category. Again, this generally takes the car issue out of the equation, unless she was having sex with some guy in your neighborhood and her car broke down.
  4. The Chronic Complainer. Seems to find fault with just about everything, whining almost constantly about every topic on Earth. This is especially true if the topic of her daily bitchsertation is about her job. Like you really (deep down) like your job?!? Come on. And if she bitches about her “ex boyfriend”? Consider that you will very soon be her next ex-boyfriend.
  5. The Compulsive Crier. Crying, in general, should be limited to semi-serious bodily injuries, family crises, and when the pooch kicks the bucket in “Old Yeller.” Nobody should be crying over spilled milk, saving that for sadder moments, like spilled beer. This woman is readily-identified by puffy red eyes, smeared eye-liner, and an ample supply of tissues in her purse. If you see a woman in this state at the end of the bar or walking out of a Pauly Shore movie, run away. Fast.
  6. The Rubberband, also Known as Bi-polar, type. It is one thing to be moody once a month on a previously determined schedule with an estimated duration of three to five days. That’s biology. It is entirely another thing to have your soul mate buy you an X-Box one day and then club you with it the next. These are the types of girls that you always break up with in public places. Chuck E. Cheese works perfectly. Two hundred and fifty thousand screaming kids can drown out one screaming woman… usually. These women are almost always passionate, but so was that diaper-wearing astro-nut who drove from non-stop from Texas to Florida for a little “alone time” with her cheating flyboy lover.
  7. The Cling-on type. This is the girl who is on you like a wet blanket from the first date forward and calls you 4 times a day just to say "Hi" and follows it up with 15 text messages with stupid smiley faces. Sure, she intends to be sweet, but when she goes “Stage 5 Clinger” on you? It’s a whole new level of separation anxiety. Litmus Test I: To find out if you are dating this woman, after sex tell her to do your dishes. This will end 98% of all relationships, but at least you’ll know.
  8. The Ultimatum, or “Do this or I'm Leaving You,” type. A strong woman is one thing. One who slaps ultimatums on you is a whole new classification of a woman to avoid. Ultimatums may work, depending on the situation. Assertive women are a natural and often positive part of female evolution. Litmus Test II: If she insists you stop frequenting strip clubs or the relationship is over, she has a point. Not an Ultimatum Girl. However, if she insists that you can’t meet your buddies at Hooters to watch the game or else you’re sleeping on the sofa when you get back home, then go get yourself a pickle jar and some formaldehyde – you’re gonna need a place to store those testicles of yours for the rest of your life.
  9. The "Liberated, but You Still Pay for Everything" type. All I ask is that they make a choice. You want me to open doors? Done. You want me to pick up the check? My pleasure. But if she insists on driving the car, then she pays for the gas. It’s the girl who flip-flops on you like John Kerry during election season that will drive you crazy. If Hillary becomes president, will Bubba still drive the remote control?
  10. The “Time Bomb” type. This woman comes in different shapes and mental states. Tell-tale phrases to come out of her all-too-scary mouth are, “So…when do you want to get married?” and “How many children do you want?” We barely know each other, you think. Often these questions arise when you’re deciding whether or not you want fries or onion rings.

Honorable Mentions


The "I’ve Got a Plan" type. The one who has planned her entire life from beginning to end. "I'll be married by the time I'm this age, have kids by this age, etc. blah blah blah." She starts talking like this, you tell her you also have a plan – to leave.

The "Always Pissed-Off" type. Hot as she is, you can just see from across the room that she's always pissed off, angry, mean to people, especially guys she’s dating. Trust your gut even if she's shoving her tongue in your mouth. You can still sleep with her, but only once. OK, maybe twice.

I realize that stereotyping is bad. Stereotyping is ignorant and shameful. Ster-eo-typing isn't quite so bad. Because I, Ster, know that what I'm about to say is, in fact, culled from actual women I have dated and is therefore, not ignorant. I speak the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Ok, it’s still bad.

But that said, every woman on this list did send my life into ruin, to varying degrees. Yet I press on. I’m still committed to finding that special person, just not so “special” that she rode the short bus to school. However, please allow for this preface:

  1. All women who are 35 and older and have never been married are seeing a shrink. If not, they should be.
  2. All men who fail to classify “their gal” into any category only to have it blow up in their face? They deserved it.
  3. For every psycho, nutburger gal, there are 20-30 men that couldn’t give a rip if she has a nice ass.
Bold statements? Massive generalizations? Yeah, kinda. But my list of 10 types of women that fall into distinct categories is back with he assertions with nothing but rhetoric and misleading statements that only an actively-dating single guy could truly appreciate.

And now to add a new phrase to American culture: “No matter how hot a girl is, somebody out there is tired of her crap!”

Ster is a 30-something single professional living in Dallas, TX. He chooses not to write under his true name because the dating world is tough enough when people know who you are, what with Google and all...

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